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Sri Lanka: A personal odyssey
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Gender violence the world over

By Zanita Careem
Gender violence is a hidden human problem. It is at the doorstep of families, schools, neighbourhoods everywhere as women are more at risk from husbands fathers neighbours or colleagues than they are from strangers.

According to the World Health Organisation report gender violence is a greater cause of death and disability among women aged 15 to 44 than cancer, malaria, traffic accidents or war.

The WHO believes that at least one in five women in the world has been physically or sexually abused by a man at sometime in her life.

Until recently the profound effect of violence on women’s lives was hidden.

Today it causes damage to even the reproductive system of women in direct and indirect ways by

• Unwanted pregnancy through rape or inability to use contraceptives.
• Unsafe abortions/abortion related injury after an unwanted pregnancy.
• Pregnancy complications.
• Sexually transmitted diseases including HIV infections
• Gynaecological problems
• Psychological problems/fear of sex/loss of pleasure.

India, Korea
It is said abuse may begin at both or even before.

In Korea, India where women are pressured to have sons they use ultrasound tests to determine the sex of their unborn children and sometimes abort female foetuses.

Africa
In African societies, there is the practise of genital mutilation which if not done properly may result in infection or death.

It is a painful ritual operation in which the Africans believe will help control female sexuality.

China
As a result of China’s one child policy with a preference for a son it is reported that some midwives carry a bucket of water when attending on a woman in labour so that girl babies can be conveniently drowned.

Brothels
Acute poverty in some Indian and Nepali villages has driven families to sell their daughters to traffickers who sell them to brothels in foreign countries.

A survey in London revealed that every year one woman in nine is severely beaten. Even in Sri Lanka cases of battered women have reached a high percentage.

Although gender violence has reached alarming proportions, and the international community is aware of it the battle against it is only beginning.

In many countries and in some societies it is still seen as an acceptable part of social life even by many of its victims.

Helpless
Even in Sri Lanka many just bear the brunt of it and never want to talk about.

Even when women recognize its danger local customs and financial considerations often make it difficult or impossible for them to leave an abusive relationship.

Take the case of a Sri Lankan couple whose married life is a total disaster because of her drunken husband’s abuses and assaults but bear it up without complaining to her parents or friends.

Cambodia
A Cambodian mother told this to her abused daughter who had run away from her husband ‘Please go back home. Don’t be afraid of your husband, he wont beat you until you are dead. At most he will just hit you until you are unconscious. If he beats you to death I will bury your bones."

For many women, pressuring even the most destructive family relationship appears more important than life itself.

Even in rich industrialised used countries such as the US, gender violence is a common phenomena.

Women trying to integrate into the armed services are sexually harassed and popular ‘rap’ music lyrics, insult women as ‘whores’.

Canada
In a random sample of women interviewed in Toronto, Canada 27% said they had been physically assaulted by an intimate partner.

Russia
In Russia every fifth murder victim is killed by a spouse and women are the victims is most cases.

In India a bride’s family traditionally gives a dowry to her intended husband before the marriage and if the dowry requirements are not fulfilled to the satisfaction of the boy's family abuse assault and even murder may result.

Many resolutions have ben passed at international conferences condemning violence against women.

At the international conference on Population and Development held in Cairo in 1994 freedom from violence and coercion was declared an essential prerequisites of the achievement of reproductive health.

Finally at the fourth World Conference on Women held in Beijing, China in 1996 women’s equality in all spheres of society was declared fundamental for the advancement of equality development and peace.

In 1998 the fortieth session of the UN Commission on the Status of Women will consider gender violence as an official area of concern.

Change can come only from within communities themselves. In many countries including Sri Lanka increasing awareness of the danger of domestic violence has given rise to large and growing anti-gender violence movements.

A number of new laws against rape and domestic violence have been passed.

The media must deal more extensively and sensitively with the gender violence issue and women the unfortunate victims should unitedly stand against this abuse.

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The ‘Dhaka Declaration’

The ‘Dhaka Declaration’ unanimously passed at the conference organised by the ‘Coalition Against Trafficking in Women’ on ‘Organising against sexual exploitation in the Asian region, were forwarded to the Heads of State and Ministers of Labour of SAARC to draw their attention to this global problem.

Thirty seven delegates from 16 countries attended the conference in Dhaka recently.

The declarations
• It is a fundamental human right to be free of sexual exploitation in all its forms, and that sex trafficking and prostitution are not inevitable aspects of the human conditions.

• Sexual exploitation preys on women and children made vulnerable by poverty and socio-cultural ideology and practices.

• Prostitution and trafficking are forms of sexual exploitation and can never be considered work as essentially they deprive women and children of their human dignity.

• Government policies have created situations where their economic policies result in the displacement of peoples creating refugees and migrant population which become targets of sexual exploitation.

• Sexual exploitation violates the rights of anyone subjected to it, whether females or male, adult or child, from the South or North. Local and global sex industries and trafficking networks are systematically violating women’s right on a massive scale.

• Sexual exploitation is a vehicle for racism and so-called first world domination disproportionately victimizing minority and third world women.

• Modern communication technology, such as the Internet, is being misused to promote and enact multiple forms of sexual exploitation.

• Prostitution and sex trafficking gravely impair women’s health and can result in infection, injury, disability and death.

• Sexual exploitation eroticism women’s inequality.

• Prostitution victimizes all women, justifies the sale of any women, and reduces all women to sex.

• Women have the right to sexual integrity and autonomy. (ZC)


Sigiri - King Kasapa's abode

Sigiri, King Kassapa's abode when looked at from any angle from the surrounding area is awe inspiring. This view is directly opposite the popular one with the lions paw entrance.

The King ruled from 473-491 AD having usurped the throne from his brother Moggallana whom their father King Dhatusena (455-473 and builder of Kalawewa) had nominated as his successor.

Some scholars believe that the female figures at Sigiri are those of Kassapa's queens. Others believe that they are those of God Kuvera's princesses and that Sigiri itself with all its ornamentation and pleasure gardens was not a fortification only but more of a model of the God's palace on Mount Kailasa. Whichever these figures may be they are of unmatched beauty and grace and are the earliest of Sri Lanka's pictorial art. These are similar in many respects to those at Ajantha in India.

A. C. B. Pethiyagoda


Arangethram of Jayakalani

Dr. Pandit Visharadha, W. D. Amaradeva
Jithendrika Jayakalani achieved an outstanding victory in her formal entry into the world of Bharata Natyam, displaying a dancing fluency, which registered an exquisitely tasteful performance in Sri Lankans' dance stage.

To me the synthesis of the three art-forms of singing, instrumental music, and dancing, turned out to be one integrated song. It is no secret that the connoisseurs who assembled at Elphistone that evening, reached an ecstatic level of enjoyment of that integrated 'song'.

It is not at all a matter of surprise that this dance debut turned out to be a deeply absorbing performance, when we consider the contributory factors.

There was the stream of elegant vocal virtuosity provided by music expert Visharadha Chandrika Siriwardane, whose profound awareness of the notes, melodies and rhythms and expertise in musical experience are perfect.

Expert achievement possesses, to elevate the level of high enjoyment of connoisseurs.

It must be especially stated here that the total commitment of all artistes and patrons contributed extensively towards the success of Jayakalani's dance debut.

It is my earnest wish, that the path of Jayakalani's progress, who is growing up in an auspicious environment, should become one of elegance and perfection, leading to the enrichment of connoisseurs.

This is an age in which practical art and art-criticism tend to march towards decline. It is a matter of happiness indeed to be able to experience such an artistic performance as Jayakalani's Arangethram, at such a time.

This performance has escaped the conventional ways of the usual dance debuts. It is a matter for special satisfaction that Jayakalani was able to present an innovative dance creation, nourished by the lyrical compositions of well-known composers Dr. Ajantha Ranasinghe and Saman Chandranath Weerasinghe and supported by the lilting music composition and singing performance of Visharadha Chandrika Siriwardane.

Is it wrong in any way to state, that, expressing such a music-cum-dance performance, from beginning to end, is a royal road to cultivate compassion and tranquillity.


Forgotten Heritage
Submerged harems

Gamini G. Punchihewa
About 3 1/2 miles from the ancient Minipe anicut, the Mahaweli ganga falls over the Randenigala with rock boulders — a wondrous sight.

The waters of the Randenigala gorge were impounded to build the man made lake — Randenigala reservoir in early 1986.

Since Randenigala is rooted from time immemorial in Bintenna, the verdant hills, valleys, and dales are reminsicent of Vedda country. Randenigala and Vedda Damanahela are two prominent hills against which the Randenigala dam was built. Veddamanahela means the hunting hill of the Veddas.

Randenigala means the priceless hill that gave gold, while some tradition says it was a battlefield in times of ancient kings (Ran-battle-deniya-plains).

Came the Randenigala reservior and many purana villages of many legends and historical episodes connected with kings, queens, and princesses of old Lanka were submerged.

Among them lie Serasuntenna and Isthripura which sheltered one of the most fabulous geological wonders, namely those marvellous and captivating columns of stalacities and stalagmites (lime stone columns of fascinating formations rising upwards and falling downwards).

Such limestone columns with their myriad formations resemble chandelliers and grottos, apart from these formations the hidden caverns of Isthripura, were also home to illicit love affairs among the kings and princes of a bygone era. Hence its name, 'Isthripura' meaning 'harem of damsels'.

Telambu shrine
In Serasuntenna, there stood a huge Telambu tree. At the foot of which was a shrine dedicated to Lord Buddha called Telambugaha Devale. Old timers settled around Keerthi-bandarapura tell us that this Buddha shrine was built by a certain king to atone for a cruel act he is believed to have committed to his subjects. Serasuntenna villagers continue to make offerings at this devale to atone the sin committed by that king.

Sad legend
Legend has it that this particular king rebuffed by one of his minister's ravishing daughter's committed suicide at the very sacred spot where the Telambu shrine had stood.

Second largest reservoir
The Randenigala Power Project was constructed with aid from the then Federal Republic of Germany work on the project commenced on November 22, 1982. Its waters were impounded on March 23 and the Randenigala Multi-purpose Project was inaugurated on 1st October 1988.


High Fashion
Candlelight and Roses

Text and Pics by Kirthi Sri Karunaratne
June and July saw many weddings planned for, months ahead, with all the trappings and much originality in the decor. The trendy fashion today seems to be elaborate and tastefully coordinated decoration to enhance the surroundings, and to lend charm and beauty to the occasion. Flowers are still the firm favourite though, and roses, ivy and tulle with candles in candlebra brings with it an unfailing air of romance.

When Eshani Wijesekera flew out to be married in Sri Lanka to Nalin Liyanamana the ballroom of the Colombo Hilton was given an air of subtle elegance with a tasteful decor. The tulle draped main table and the table on which the pyramid of Champagne glasses were placed, were decorated in cascades of ivy, red and white roses and babys breath, besides delicate fern. The theme was carried out on the tables, and behind the main table were two ice carved vases, massed on top with roses and greenery.

The bride wore a Kandyan saree of gold lurex spun jersey, the 'ihe', pallu, and sleeves of the blouse worked in a gold cord to emulate a guipure lace like pattern. She wore traditional Kandyan jewellery, and her bouquet was of ivory and peach roses interspersed with baby's breath and green leaves.


Eshani & Sakuntala
Her single bridesmaid Sakuntala Dharmatilleke had burgundy lace motifs on the ihe of her Kandyan saree of the same colour. Her blouse was of the delicately patterned lace, and her bouquet was in harmonious tones of burgundy. A delicate necklace of garnets finish the picture. The bride didn't change into a going away outfit, but for her homecoming she wore a beautiful peacock hued chiffon saree entirely embroidered in chain stitch in the same colour and tiny silver beads. Only the sleeves of the blouse had a rose modified design worked in silver bugle beads, blue pearls and sequins and diamanthe to wear with diamond jewellery.

Eshani is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ananda Wijesekera, and Nalin the son of Mr. and Mrs. Bertie Liyanamana.

Malika, the mother of the bride wore a Tanchoi silk in sapphire blue, bordered in silver with touches of a rust. She wore diamonds for jewellery and her accessories were in silver. The bridal saree was a Harris Wijesinghe creation.

Wheel barrows of flowers placed in strategic places and instead of the usual floral arrangements behind the seat the couple sit on,

The chaise lounge was placed in a summer house of drapery and flowers to make a most unusual focal point, at the centre of the ballroom of the Colombo Hilton Hotel. Pink candles on stands made of echo friendly thick reeds, flickered off an arrangement of roses and greenery. This was at the wedding of petite Anosha Subasinghe, daughter of Alfred and Nanda Subasinghe who married Sharm de Alwis, son of Siri and Sumana de Alwis.

Her bridal was a Harris Wijesinghe creation out of lace and nylon net. The lace was appliqued in sprays on the net and outlined in a cellophane ribbon, and reembroidered in mother of pearl sequins and pearls. Her simple veil with a fine edging flowed off a diamond tiara, and her jewellery was in diamonds and gold. Her unusual bouquet was a tight posy of pink roses, and Ivy leaves framed in tulle.

For her going away she changed into a totally different costume, which consisted of a sarong skirt and top in a champagne beige, with a bold panel of painting in exotic colours, of flame, green, brown and gold. This creation was from Yoland Aluvihare.

She had a retinue of two bridesmaids Ashanthi Ratnayake and Reshmal Gomez, and two flower girls Natasha Lourdes and Gimhani Galagedera.

The Kandyan saree was also the choice of dimunitive Ballroom dancer Anusha Jayasinghe, when she was married to Manoj de Silva. The venue was once again the Serendib Ballroom of the Colombo Hilton.

Anusha's saree of raw silk and lace on net was in the combination of ivory and subdued gold. The 'ihe' was worked in the lace, and the fall which flowed into a train had the wide pallu in the lace on net. She wore the seven chains and padakkams worn by the traditional Kandyan bride, and her bouquet was of ivory and cream toned roses, with baby's breath and greenery.

The mother of the groom Nirmala made a charming impression in a koorai saree of the loveliest shade of red woven with silver.

Among the diners at the reception was Rehana Kirkoven in a white manipuri silk with border and pallu in dull gold, draped in the Gujarati style, she wore with gold jewellery.

Anusha, is the daughter of Senarath and Janaki Jayasinghe, and Manoj, the son of Ananda and Nirmala de Silva. This bridal ensemble was Michael Wijesooriya's creation.


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- Zanita


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